Comments on: Is it F%$#ed up of me to not let my gf of 6 months move in with me? http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/ Georgia's most beautiful island Wed, 23 May 2012 19:55:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: marie167 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1434 marie167 Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:15:21 +0000 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/#comment-1434 6 weeks, 6 months, 6 years...it doesn't matter. Your space, privacy, living conditions, financial matters are yours to deal with, enjoy, be miserable with, work out on your own at your own pace. There is nothing worse than sharing something with someone that you can't even figure out. 6 weeks, 6 months, 6 years…it doesn’t matter. Your space, privacy, living conditions, financial matters are yours to deal with, delight in, be miserable with, work out on your own at your own pace. There is nothing worse than sharing something with someone that you can’t even figure out.

]]> By: dakotanmisty http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1433 dakotanmisty Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:39:05 +0000 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/#comment-1433 I think you already answered your own ? by stating that you do not believe in co-habitating. I suggest you speak to your g/f and explain that you are sympathetic to current residential situation, but suggest that she look into staying with one of her girlfriends, or maybe a relative (sibling, cousin etc). You are unemployed, your p/t work isn't going to be enough income to cover the increase in utility bills (water, gas, electricity). Explain to her that just b/c u don't want to live together, doesn't mean you don't love her. If she can't understand & respect your feelings about co-habitation, then she isnt the right girl for you.... I reckon you already answered your own ? by stating that you do not believe in co-habitating.

I suggest you speak to your g/f and clarify that you are sympathetic to current residential situation, but suggest that she look into staying with one of her girlfriends, or maybe a relative (sibling, cousin etc). You are unemployed, your p/t work isn’t going to be enough income to cover the increase in utility bills (water, gas, electricity). Clarify to her that just b/c u don’t want to live together, doesn’t mean you don’t like her. If she can’t know & respect your feelings about co-habitation, then she isnt the right girl for you….

]]> By: lld61378 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1432 lld61378 Wed, 17 Mar 2010 23:55:21 +0000 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/#comment-1432 u shouldnt let her move in.i dont care how much money she makes.it changes when you move in with someone.tell her she can stay the night a few times a week. u shouldnt let her go in.i dont care how much money she makes.it changes when you go in with someone.tell her she can stay the night a few times a week.

]]> By: Big Thinker http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1431 Big Thinker Wed, 17 Mar 2010 22:57:24 +0000 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/#comment-1431 It's your house man...you can let anyone in it you want. You are well within your rights to not let her live with you if you don't want. That is your space and you don't have to share it until you're ready It’s your house man…you can let anyone in it you want. You are well within your rights to not let her live with you if you don’t want. That is your space and you don’t have to share it until you’re ready

]]> By: Strategy Fan http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1430 Strategy Fan Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:59:30 +0000 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/#comment-1430 6 months is a bit fast but if you know you are REALLY into eachother might as well get started on the inevitable. Thing is you gotta be sure you really dig her because once she's in there yer stuck. Also unless you are really into eachother co-habitating is hard because you'll be in eachother sh*t ALL the time... 6 months is a bit quick but if you know you are REALLY into eachother might as well get started on the inevitable. Thing is you gotta be sure you really dig her because once she’s in there yer stuck. Also unless you are really into eachother co-habitating is hard because you’ll be in eachother sh*t ALL the time…

]]> By: EverythingIDoIs90 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1429 EverythingIDoIs90 Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:11:26 +0000 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/#comment-1429 hell no...don't let her move in, your not ready and you know it. and another thing maintain the relationship but don't neglect your financial and proffesional life...find a balance between the two and exploit. Once your more financially secure then focus the attn. on strengthening the relationship. 6 months seems way too short for me hell no…don’t let her go in, your not ready and you know it. and another thing maintain the relationship but don’t neglect your financial and proffesional life…find a balance between the two and exploit. Once your more financially secure then focus the attn. on strengthening the relationship. 6 months seems way too small for me

]]> By: magickitty0621 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1428 magickitty0621 Wed, 17 Mar 2010 20:16:08 +0000 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/#comment-1428 if you are not ready you are not ready..i know ive dated my boyfriend for 4 months before we moved in together, but we both were having financial difficulties...and we both felt like we could handle it. So we moved in... but you cant fight what doesnt feel right to you..trust your gut if you are not ready you are not ready..i know ive dated my boyfriend for 4 months before we went in together, but we both were having financial difficulties…and we both felt like we could handle it. So we went in…
but you cant fight what doesnt feel right to you..trust your gut

]]> By: satirecafe http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1427 satirecafe Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:40:30 +0000 http://tybeebeachfront.com/2010/03/17/is-it-fed-up-of-me-to-not-let-my-gf-of-6-months-move-in-with-me/#comment-1427 no- 6 months isn't that long and if you aren't ready you aren't ready. no- 6 months isn’t that long and if you aren’t ready you aren’t ready.

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